Geeks or SciFiFans and Communication Differences

[grum]

I know I post here so often....
That said, I know that a while back I read an article contrasting the "standard American" standards of active listening and those prevalent in either groups of geeks or the masses at sci-fi cons. (I know there's considerable overlap there, but I'm pretty sure it was one or the other.
I'm taking a communication class this quarter and the prof said he'd be interested in seeing it... and now I can't find it! Bother!
Can anybody help me?
(i'd almost bet money that I saw it on memegarden's blog at some point, but it's such a pain in the tush to go looking through back journal posts)

Comments

[damiana-swan.livejournal.com]

Hmm, that sounds familiar, although I'm thinking that it was lumiere who linked to it.

[fallenpegasus]

Try posting to rec.arts.sf.fandom and asking there.

[paraventur.livejournal.com]

here's a version, but I think there are other versions out there.

http://hackvan.com/pub/stig/life/sf-fans-and-body-language.txt

[memegarden.livejournal.com]

http://www.fantasymaps.com/stuff/fanspeak.html